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Jay was born on December 6, 1960, in Lawrence, son of the late Dorothy Dezan and Burton Dezan. He was raised in Lawrence where he was a graduate of Lawrence High School. He majored in criminal justice in college and graduated from the Police Academy. Jay took great pride serving as a police officer in the communities of Methuen and Dracut. He especially loved his role as a D.A.R.E. Officer and had a passion for working with children. Jay loved sports and was a member of Long Meadow Golf Club.
Jay will always be known for his caring heart, sense of humor, love of animals, and his storytelling. He warmed many hearts with his smile especially as a volunteer clown for Shriners. Jay will be deeply missed and will forever hold a loving spot in his family's hearts.
Jay is survived by his wife Beth; his best friend and brother, Fred Dezan and his wife, Janine; his nephew, Keith Dezan and many adoring nieces, nephews, sister-in-laws, brother-in-laws and friends. In addition to his parents, Jay was predeceased by his sisters, Diane Baglieri and Joyce C. Ventrillo.
At Jay's request, there will be a private Celebration of Life at a later date.
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Tom McNiff
November 14, 2023
I had the pleasure of being Jay supervisor when he was the dare officer in Dracut. Loved working with the children and always happy and smiling. Rest in peace.
Tom McNiff
Susan San Antonio
November 12, 2023
Beth, I´m so sorry to hear about Jay. I have so many wonderful, fun memories of you, Jay, Dave and I at Ding Ho!! Sue San Antonio xo
Cassie Cunliffe
November 11, 2023
Deeply sorry for your loss I knew Jay when I worked with his wife Beth at Hickory Hill. He will be missed.
Jo-Ann MacNeill
November 9, 2023
I remember when my daughter went to Dare Camp he was the police officer that was always there for the kids... a good man always great with the kids.
Johnnie B.
November 8, 2023
Many happy memories of you Jay! Your laughter and smile was infectious. Beth was your perfect compliment.
Michele Bourret
November 7, 2023
So sorry to hear about Officer Jay he was a great guy and we were lucky to have him as our Dracut Dare Officer my thoughts and prayers go out to his family so so sorry for your loss
Janet Mulligan
November 7, 2023
Dear Beth,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the passing of your beloved Jay. I can´t imagine how you are feeling, but please know that I am thinking of you and sending so much love your way. May God bless Jay and hold him in the palm of His hand.
Joseph DeNuncio
November 7, 2023
A true dedicated Lawrence Lancer and Police officer...Rest easy my friend...
Robert D McInnis
November 7, 2023
As a former police officer, I solute your service.....Thank you & RIP
Kathy
November 7, 2023
Kathy and Dave
Paul Manock
November 7, 2023
So sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers for you Beth.
Mike Driscoll LHS 83
November 7, 2023
Jay was one of my coaches as a freshman at Lawrence High School. He was incredibly supportive and a great inspiration. The coaching staff changed after my freshman year and I hadn´t seen him for awhile. I had a good game as a senior, and as I was running toward the old clubhouse he ran up to me from behind and grabbed my shoulder. He told me how impressed he was and it meant a great deal to me. Great guy! I´m sorry for your loss. Our loss
Karen mcdowell
November 7, 2023
Beth. We are so sad to be reading this. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Michael and Karen McDowell
Maria Avila
November 7, 2023
So sorry for your loss
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