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John Coute

1944 - 2023

John Coute obituary, 1944-2023, San Bernadino, CA

BORN

1944

DIED

2023

John Coute Obituary

In Loving Memory|John Coute, a beloved husband, father, grandfather and cherished member of our community, peacefully departed this world on October 23, 2023 at the age of 79. He leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and unwavering support for his family and friends.

John was born on July 5, 1944 and raised in Bristol, Rhode Island, where he graduated from Colt High School in 1962 before moving to San Bernadino, California in 1968. A devoted husband to his loving wife of 54 years, Barbara (Balzo), proud father to his daughters, Nicole Howes and Melissa Bennington, grandfather to Delanie Howes, Jackson Bennington, and Demi Bennington, and father-in-law to Scott Howes and Jay Bennington. He was loved by many including his nieces, nephews, brothers-in-law, cousins, and countless friends.

Throughout his life, John was loving, generous, and his smile would bring a smile to all he knew. With a strong work ethic and determination, John successfully owned several businesses, including Arrow Auto Air and Service Center, GT Kawasaki Fontana, and a Snap-On Tools franchise for 27 years. In his free time, John had a passion for hot rods, and was an active member of the charitable organization, Over The Hill Gang. John was also a former member of The Lions Club, a member of Saint Adelaide Catholic church, and a long term member of the San Bernardino Planning Commission. A patriot and veteran, John served in the United States National Guard from 1965 until 1971, and supported the Volunteer For Veterans Foundation annual car show for nearly two decades.

Leaving behind a network of friends and extended family who will miss his fun-loving pranks, wisdom, kindness, and a good time, his legacy of love, resilience, and commitment will live on as an enduring example to us all. John's devotion to his family was unwavering, and his presence will forever be missed.

John is preceded in death by his mother and father, Almerinda (Sousa) and John Coute, and sister Bernice (Coute) Parenti. A memorial service to celebrate John's life will be held on Friday, November 17, 2023 at St Adelaide's church in Highland at 2:30pm. His Celebration of Life will follow from 4-8 p.m. at The Elks Lodge San Bernardino.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Warren Times-Gazette, Bristol Phoenix, Barrington Times on Nov. 1, 2023.

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Vic Corral (Vic Slick)

November 20, 2023

Condolences to Barbara and all of John's family. John was great man & was instrumental in helping me launch my car show DJ career many years ago,..and John always took care me at the shows. I will always be grateful. Thank you John. See you in Heavan. 'Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord,
and let Your perpetual light shine upon him.
May John's soul and the souls of all the faithful departed
rest in peace. Amen

Dorothy Hayes

November 16, 2023

Dear Barbara, Nicole, Melissa, Delany, Jackson and Demi,
We are truly sorry to hear about Cousin John. He won't be forgotten. Those 4th Of July celebrations in Bristol will forever be in our memory. Our hearts and thoughts are with all of you. I hope all of your wonderful memories help to carry you through.
Dorothy Hayes and Linda Mendonca

Larry and Kathy Hagerty

November 2, 2023

So sorry for your loss, I know you all loved him dearly.

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Memorial Events
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Nov

17

Memorial service

2:30 p.m.

St Adelaide's church

Highland, RI

Nov

17

Celebration of Life

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

The Elks Lodge

San Bernardino, RI

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